Chen and Anne come to counseling because they are on the brink of a divorce. After five years of marriage, Anne sees Chen as a highly controlling individual who micromanages their bank account. She s tired of her husband always nagging about money, and says she doesn t feel like she s getting anything positive out of her relationship. Chen considers Anne s spending extravagant. He blames her family background for creating her lack of responsibility. From Anne s perspective, what theory about marriage would explain the relationship failure