What are the reasons that both men and women can become victims?

Because everyone can have bad stuff happen to them regardless of gender.

1.apartheid excluded majority of south africans
2.members of resistance were often ill treated in prisons and effects of it spred on their famillies
3.when some protester was killed due to police action it often was only employed person in the familly which led to lack of income
4.accidental vitims of street war
5.separation of famillies
6.sowing distrust in teh communities

Betray, destroy, and obey do not need to be changed to add the suffix -ed, because the "y" at the end of each word is preceded by a vowel  (so  they would be spelled  "betrayed," "destroyed," and "obeyed").

but hurry is different; it has to  be spelled "hurried" because the "y" at the end of "hurry" is preceded by a consonant.