What do you do if you confessed your feelings for a guy that you met once and talked to him but he has a toxic girlfriend and he lives four hours away but you have friends that live there?

Take time to see if he's really worth your time.

Explanation:

If he has a girlfriend start off as friends don't try to rush into anything with someone who is in a relationship. Don't try too hard because it'll become awkward and always have your guard up. Start getting to know him and let him show you who he really is because not every relationship is one sided. If he's worth it go for it. But don't always go out of your way for him see if he can do the same for you.

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