The experience of parting with an object, person, belief, or relationship that one values is defined as:

a punishment or the threat of punishment used to enforce conformity. enforcement of norms or shared rules of conduct that tell people how to act in specific situations. social control. not everyone internalizes all of society's norms, and some people must be motivated by self-fulfillment.

the answer would be a)henry grady because he came up with the term "new south"