How do we respond in this tragic experience of jesus​

The correct answer to this open question is the following.

Unfortunately, you do not specify what is the "tragic experience" of Jesus. If you do not specify what this was, we are going to assume that you are referring to the crucifixion of Jesus.

If that is the case we can say the following.

You have to respond to this tragic experience of Jesus exactly the way he taught his followers: with love and compassion.

Indeed, Jesus of Nazareth was known as the master of love. He taught his disciples to love the enemy. To have compassion for people who disagree with you.

Although his death on the cross was a tragedy, he always expressed love and forgiveness for all his enemies, and it is a great lesson for everybody. Instead of reacting aggressively or want revenge, Jesus forgave his aggressors.  ​