The desire for others to perceive us in the same way that we see ourselves is

Self-verification

Explanation:

According to the theory of self-verification people want to be seen by others as they see themselves. As the perspective a person has about themselves is responsible for their world view it is logical that people seek self-verification. This makes the life of a person stable and makes their world more coherent.

Hence, the question here is referring to Self-verification.

thomas jefferson. establishing a federal republic. although thomas jefferson was in france serving as united states minister when the federal constitution was written in 1787, he was able to influence the development of the federal government through his correspondence.