Applying a family perspective on the development of personality disorders, researchers found that compared to others, people with personality disorder remember their parents as more controlling and less caring, or as failing to protect them.

Borderline

Explanation: Borderline personality is a type of personality disorder in which hurdles in emotion regulation is faced by individual.A person persisting this disorder can feel emotions for long duration in deep manner. Difficulty in returning to stable condition happens with the person .

As mentioned in question , people persisting borderline personality disorder tend to remember their parents more for careless nature, control parenting etc as they feel any emotions severely for long period of time , usually insecurity, worthlessness etc.

answer; /// decreasing responsiveness to a stimulus to which one is repeatedly exposed;