How is the formal relationship initiated ,built and sustained suggest two ways each?

First is communication, it promotes greater understanding and helps you understand your significant other. Second is accepting, it promotes harmony and flexibility to reach a common goal. Third is respect, it makes the individual feel important equally. Fourth is care, it provides engagement of the individual. And fifth is trust, it promotes long term success for the relationship to carry. 

the answer is solomon northrup. he was a free-born african american, abolitionist and professional violinist that was drugged, kidnapped and sold as slave in 1841 and remained in captivity until 1853 where he regained his freedom with the of the then-governor of new york, washington hunt. he wrote and published his memoirs "twelve years a slave" in 1853, and in this text, he tells the story of his escape thru one of louisiana's swamps (the great pacoudrie swamp) in which he ended up covered in green slime from crossing the surface of the dead water.