1. Life was never supposed to be easy, we are going to go through a lot of stuff in this world, sometimes we think it's going to be more we can bear, but in reality, we cannot give up. Humanity messed up from the very beginning, so maybe that's why.
2. I've never been in love before, but I can probably tell you that falling in love can be either feel really great and awesome or it can make you miserable. Whoever that person is, this person could probably feel like they light up every room they walk into, the person that, for you, sticks out from the rest, someone you can be extremely comfortable around. Sometimes, it's a gut feeling, you just know, you've fallen in love.
3. I'm really sorry if you lost someone. Grief can be really hard. If it really is bothering you a lot, the best thing to do is to reach out to someone and share the grief with them. You can write it down, all the memories you shared with this person, in a journal or diary. Everyone grieves differently, just know that there is no time limit to grief and that you are not alone in this. You can even reach out to me if you want to. I'll be there.Â
4. The meaning of life is not to be successful in the eyes of people. It's not to be rich and famous. It's not anything that society tells you should be or what you should do. The meaning of life is to find the truth. No matter what you do on this earth, it will all mean nothing when you die. No matter how good you think you are, you will still make mistakes. Seek the truth, many have found it, and I think you will too.
5. There are many ways you can tell someone you love them. We might not realize, but people can show that they love you without saying it outright. Checking up on someone by sending them a text or calling them shows that you love them. Asking if this person ate today or if they need a ride, or if they look down and you ask them if they need a hug. That can show that you love them. you can outright say so or write a letter or text. There are so many ways. You don't have to constrict yourself to one way. There are many passive ways to tell someone that you love them if you're too scared to say it outright.
6. I don't think you can tell, but maybe they are giving you hints without you realizing it like the point I made above. They could act a little differently around you that's different from other people. Again you never know unless you're that person, but maybe with time, they will come out and say it eventually.
7. That depends on your definition of 'cool'. If your definition of cool is hanging out with the cool kids and doing drugs, skipping school, wearing name brands, picking on the other non-cool kids is your definition of cool, then maybe you should reconsider. But you really don't have to be 'cool' for people to like you. If you act cool, but you're not yourself, people will not like the real you, they will only like how you present yourself. Be yourself, and you will have friends who will love you for the way you are, and honestly, that is a solid friendship right there.
If you have any questions about what I wrote you can dm me but I hope this helped :)
