Put one person before the other by neglecting yourself or your partnerFeel pressure to change who you are for the other personFeel worried when you disagree with the other personFeel pressure to quit activities you usually/used to enjoyPressure the other person into agreeing with you or changing to suit you betterNotice one of you has to justify your actions (e.g., where you go, who you see)Notice one partner feels obligated to have sex or has been forcedHave a lack of privacy, and may be forced to share everything with the other personYou or your partner refuse to use safer sex methodsNotice arguments are not settled fairlyExperience yelling or physical violence during an argumentAttempt to control or manipulate each otherNotice your partner attempts to controls how you dress and criticizes your behaviorsDo not make time to spend with one anotherHave no common friends, or have a lack of respect for each others’ friends and familyNotice an unequal control of resources (e.g., food, money, home, car, etc.)Experience a lack of fairness and equality
A healthy relationship is when two people develop a connection based on:
-Mutual respect
-Trust
-Honesty
-Support
-Fairness/equality
-Separate identities
-Good communication
-A sense of playfulness/fondness
An unhealthy Relationship
-Put one person before the other by neglecting yourself or your partner
-Feel pressure to change who you are for the other person
-Feel worried when you disagree with the other person
-Feel pressure to quit activities you usually/used to enjoy
-Pressure the other person into agreeing with you or changing to suit you better
-Notice one of you has to justify your actions (e.g., where you go, who you see)
-Notice one partner feels obligated to have sex or has been forced
-Have a lack of privacy, and may be forced to share everything with the other person
-You or your partner refuse to use safer sex methods
-Notice arguments are not settled fairly
-Experience yelling or physical violence during an argument
-Attempt to control or manipulate each other
-Notice your partner attempts to controls how you dress and criticizes your behaviors
-Do not make time to spend with one another
-Have no common friends, or have a lack of respect for each others’ friends and family
-Notice an unequal control of resources (e.g., food, money, home, car, etc.)
-Experience a lack of fairness and equality
