Why is it important to use a sterile technique when cleaning a colostomy/ileostomy site? What can happen if you do not use this technique?

If you decide to practice abstinence and your partner does not like your decision, what question should you ask yourself? a.am i being a total drag? b.should i change my mind since i really don’t want to lose him or her? c.do i really want to be with someone who does not respect my feelings? d.is he or she going to tell everyone my decision?