Okay so my well its really not a question or maybe, So have you every meet anyone to where yall had this really good bond and like like maybe you thought it was the person you wanted to be your friend and that you could trust everything with but then all of a sudden that person turns you down not even saying I dont wanna have a bond with you Its like they just moves on and like things arent the same anymore like they used too. Have this every happened, with you and your bestfriend/sister/cousin/ or whoever let me know bc ive been through it

Yes.

Explanation:

A new girl came to my school and she played the innocent victim but she was rude and mean then she stole my friends and I never spoke with my friends again because the new girl was spreading rumors about me.

which of what? i am confused

just be there for her.

explanation:

not necessarily literally but figuratively. also don't say things like "i understand how you feel", because even though you are trying to , you clearly don't understand how she feels (i'm gonna go out on a limb here and assume you've never had a heart attack). also just let her rest. that is one of the best things for you to do.