This is just a random question you don't have to answer if you don't want to, also this is not for my self-being but for some friends who are having some troubles... What is the best quality you look for in a relationship or in a person that means a lot to you? What do you see in them that stands out, that unique/different?

The best qualities I look for is respect and drive. I say this because both partners have to respect what the other says and, especially, feels. I said drive because they have to be able to put in all the effort of maintaining a happy relationship even after fights or rough patches. Their drive will keep them from giving up on the two of you.

What I see different in them that I can't see in anyone else? The person I'm thinking of is someone who is still standing even after all of their misfortunes. They are still smiling and thinking about other people instead of closing themselves off to protect themselves.

Sorry if this was long XD hope this helps?

answer; philip zimbardo;