My right ear hurts when i put earrings in it and when i take them out, it starts bleeding from the front and behind - i got them pierced 14 years ago and they are still hurting? What should i do?

Wash your hands before touching or cleaning your piercin

You need to prevent them from getting infected.

I don't know how to make your ears feel better though.

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just be there for her.

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not necessarily literally but figuratively. also don't say things like "i understand how you feel", because even though you are trying to , you clearly don't understand how she feels (i'm gonna go out on a limb here and assume you've never had a heart attack). also just let her rest. that is one of the best things for you to do.