Departed family and friends sometimes make appearances in our dreams, but what does it mean when they do? Â More than 20 years ago (My mother was around 10 when he passed but i've seen pictures.) Â my grandpa passed away. Recently, Â I saw him in a dream. He was asleep, with the brightest white blanket and pillow Iâd ever seen. Even though he was sleeping, he had the biggest grin on his face. Like he was having a really good dream himself! I knelt beside him, pulled the covers up over his shoulders. I heard my dadâs voice behind me. âItâs time to go now,â he said. Then I woke up.
Dreaming of the dead like I did might seem unusualâeven startling, if youâre the one having the dream. But according to dream experts, itâs actually quite common. In fact, God might be trying to tell you something in the dream.
What exactly? Hereâs what a dream of the deceased might meanâŚ
Inheritance of a Spiritual Gift
The purpose of the dream could also be to anoint the dreamer with something very specific, says Dr. Barbie Breathitt, author of Dream Encounters: Seeing Your Destiny from Godâs Perspective.
âThese dreams could mean youâre receiving a giftâor divine mantleâthat God had previously given to the person youâre dreaming about,â she says. âThat could be a spiritual gift or a divine characteristic like wisdom or kindness. God is allowing the dreamer to tap into that.â
After all, God is aware of the desires of our heart, Dr. Breathitt says, especially the characteristics of someone else weâd like to mirror.
âWhen the deceased come into your dream,â she says, âitâs an open invitation for you to take on a piece of that characteristic that you admired in them.â
Comfort
Other times, a deceased loved one might show up in a dream to communicate a message on behalf of God. Â Especially to those who are grieving.
âA dream is a gateway, a doorway to the supernatural,â Dr. Breathitt says. âIf people have just lost a loved one and they never got to say goodbye, God chooses that person to come back into their dream as a messenger. If the dreamer is stuck in grief, the deceased will tell the dreamer that they are happy, that theyâre in heaven, that Jesus is real. And that they want the dreamer to stop grieving and live out their destiny.â
How to Interpret a Dream of the Deceased
So if you have a dream of a dead loved one, how do you go about analyzing it? Dr. Breathitt suggests looking up the meaning behind the name of the person you dreamed of.
âA lot of times, thereâs something to do with their name,â Dr. Breathitt says. âI look up the spiritual connotation of the name, like the Hebrew roots, and see what scripture verse is attached to it. Sometimes that alone is what God is trying to give you. Itâs not so much about that person, but what their name represents.â Â
Also, be sure to analyze where the dream takes place, Dr. Virkler Kayembe says. Are you in a house? At school? At the beach?
Next, think about how you feel in the dream. Are you feeling those same things in some area in your waking life? Â That might shed light as to what the dream means. For example, a woman recently came to Dr. Virkler Kayembe for help deciphering a dream. In the dream, the woman saw her motherâwho had passed away 20 years earlierâand a close friend walk into a church.
âThe friend was someone the dreamer had been worried about,â Dr. Virkler Kayembe says. âWhen her mother was alive, wisdom was her big characteristic. So perhaps God was showing the dreamer that her friend was walking into a place of spiritual growth, and that she was going in with wisdom. Thatâs what her mom represented.â After talking to the experts, I thought back to how Iâd been feeling in my waking life when I dreamed of my grandpa. At the time, my husband had been sharing memories of his late grandpa, which probably triggered something in my heart about losing mine.
Maybe the dream was Godâs way of showing me that I still needed healing over his death. When I saw Grandpa againâwrapped in heavenâs purity and warmthâI was reminded by my dad (who possibly represented God) that it was time to go. To trust that my grandpa was at home and at peace.
A message Iâll never forget, thanks to a dream.