What should the smiths do when buying and setting up their baby’s new crib? Plato question

Jim and phil are changing the oil in jim’s car. jim is trying to remember all the actions involved in changing the oil. phil is trying to remember the first time he ever changed the oil in his car. jim is trying to recall a memory and phil is trying to recall a(n) memory.

Wich technque is not recommended for use as a supporting detail

  when we experience conflict, it threatens our needs to feel