Possession, anger, and disrespect are all considered elements of an abusive relationship.

True. these three are not a good sign of having a good relationship. Having these three elements in your relationship will destroy what you have nurtured and cared for. Also, it might lead you to do something that will not only destroy you but as well as your partner.

Ais the answer hope this

Do it when your comfortable. they will understand . they will love you no matter what