This is like a small essay about anything i want. my question is, what does the lgbtq community want to see more of in a story and what kind of things do they find stereotypical and overrated?

Honestly, it depends on the person. In a story, make sure it is really focused on LGBT matters and try not to associate too much heterosexual content. Things the LGBT community find stereotypical are different. Gay- Who is the male and who is the female in the relationship? Want to be my GBF (gay best friend). How do you kiss/make out with a guy/girl? Bi- Are you half gay half straight? Do you want to have a three? <> I could keep going but we would be here the whole day. Hope this helps! If you have any more LGBTQ+ related questions, I know a lot about the community and would love to help. Have a great night!

I am a part of the community, so I can give some of my opinion on what I would personally like to see.  Any representation of a non heterosexual relationship would be something that I would want to see in stories. Good relationships, toxic ones, an accurate portrayal of a relationship. Personally, what would be stereotypical is to say that all gay men are flamboyant, or that all lesbians are masculine. Yes, stereotypes are typically based on some form of the truth, but to use a stereotype to describe someone entirely gets repetitive.
Also a common trope in media is that if there are any LGBT couples, it's a tragic relationship and it ends miserably. People really don't want to see just the sad, they want to see the happy.  But that doesn't mean make it fake, make it as real as possible.  Give an accurate representation on what an LGBT relationship would look like, (which is any normal relationship, but just change the genders around).

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