Which sentence is an effective example of i-language?

"you need to do your chores."
"i've told you a million times to take out the trash."
"i wish you'd do your chores when i ask you to."
"i don't like having to remind you about your chores."

The points for are used for asking questions, so for example let’s say you have a question that’s really urgent the point scale gives you up to 100 points.. not saying you always need to give 100 points but that’s what they are used for. also answering others questions will give you points.