What is more mean calling someone ugly or annoying

they are both mean either way, but it depends what is ugly or annoying  of them.

Explanation:

if you tell someone that their body is ugly that is beyond cruel as it is something they cant control nor fix and like those cheesy sayings every body is beautiful and if you are religious god creates only beauty and who are you to say otherwise.   If you say something like " your attitude, intentions, thoughts etc is ugly" then that is something more resonable and something that person can work on.

(but there are also people that are ugly within and on the outside, and i think that can lead back to their mental health, like insecurity, jealousy, lack of self  love,  can trigger rude/ mean behavior )

If you tell someone they are annoying in general then please leave that persons life because 99.1% that person is good and doesnt deserve that type of toxic/ mean stuff as well with being told they're ugly or anything else that is negative.

now if there is something in particular that is annoying maybe like tapping a pencil on purpose to annoy you or doing something on purpose to be purposely annoying and if you call them out for it it is not mean. But please dont be mean in general, you dont know a person's full story or what may be going in their lives. so just be kind.

either way if you or anyone decides to be mean, that is just your opinion and that is just one opinion out of thousands. ( and who are you to judge)

I hope this helps.

(short answer : it depends  on the context )

( simple i think it also depends on the person recieving the " youre ugly/ annoying statement ")

do you have options?

reflexive.the third one.