So, this is just a metaphorical question. lets say that you were born as a girl into a family where there is this genetic trait given to all the girls. they are all super seductive and can successfully seduce almost anyone; but can't themselves bc its something that they were born with. your mom tried to break the chain, but failed. same with her mom before that. as a result, they both are now in multiple relationships and everything is a mess. you, the girl born with this genetic trait, were adopted into a new family at a young age; however, it didn't take long for you to figure out this trait. now you are trying to break the chain and already beginning to what do you do to prevent becoming like your mom and her mom and every woman in your family? (as i said before this isn't real, its just a metaphorical situation.)