How does leaving to the military affect a family / the person leaving?

Explanation:

my personal experience, my dad served in the military, and it caused my mom alot of heartache, and my dad ended up being unloyal. so um id say it sometimes who results in divorce, ptsd, abusive father. yada yada ya.

answer: common sense was the pamphlet that thomas paine used to convince reluctant americans to abandon the goal of reconciling with britain and to accept that independence was the only option to preserve their liberty.

i think she wanted to protect her children from the extreme racism of the american south.