You are the only person who get's to decide if you are happy or not- Do not put you're happiness into the hands of someone else. Do not make it contingent their acceptance of you, or there feelings for you. At the end of each day , it doesn't matter if someone dislikes you, or if someone doesn't want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you put out into the world. Never forget that you are in charge of you're joy, and of you're worth. You get to be you're own validation. Please never forget that! - Daisy (me)