What is the term for the relative order of metals arranged by their ability to undergo reaction?

Answer is: reactivity series or activity series.
Reactivity series is an empirical progression of a series of metals, arranged by their reactivity from highest to lowest (alkaline metals have highest reactivity and Noble metals lowest reactivity). This series are used to summarize information about the reactions of metals with acids or water, double displacement reactions (more reactive metals displace metals with lower reactivity) and the extraction of metals from their ores.

The correct name for n3-ion should be azide.

They are all full and don't need any more electrons in there outer shell.