"i find that others are reluctant to get as close to me as i would like. i often have dreams that my husband doesn’t love me like he used to, and that he leaves me unexpectedly. i guess have this need to lose myself in the person i love, and this sometimes scares them away." a person who is attached most likely wrote those words.

Anxiously

Explanation:

An anxious attachment is a kind of emotional attachment in which a person possesses a negative view of him/herself and has a positive opinion of their partner due to which they develop a fear of losing their partner due to insecurity. A person who is anxiously attached to the partner constantly seeks approval and assurance from their partner and requires intimacy. A person who is anxiously attached is often encountered passing statements like "I find that others are reluctant to get as close to me as I would like." and thus constantly needs to be closer to their partner. These people are always worried and anxious in their relationship and the statement given in the question reflects that the person passing the statement is anxiously attached.

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