I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY If you feel like you don't get to be yourself, just know there is no harm in being who/what you want. You don't have to change to make others happy.
Listen to these songs:
Scars To Your Beautiful
This Is Me
I Wanna Be Me
Titanium
It's ok to be yourself. I know someday people won't try and control everything. If we try, we can make a world where there is no hate, only acceptance for everyone. Just remember to stand tall. Don't let anyone bring you down.