Hi im owner 3 here! my step mom just called me homopho bic for talking about my partner how should i handle this without violence?

You should talk and tell her how you feel

Explanation: If you talk and tell her how you feel then she will understand you but you also should treat people how you want to be treated

either ignore her or talk with her

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but no violence- no no, but also, dont runaway from problems and to what you want

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